Husbands & Wives.. naturally differently wired

1 10 2012

We were invited to a birthday sleepover down in the valley next to the Umgeni River with Ethan, my 9 year old and a group of his mates. One other father joined us.

It struck me how differently husbands and wives operate. About an hour before we left in the morning, the two men frantically started taking photos to have a record of the party. Imagine the wives/moms had been there, the cameras would have started rolling the minute we arrived the day before.

It’s cool either way, same result, different method..we need to accept that, as it’s a battle we simply cannot win.

I have a philosophy about letting the majors be majors and the minors be minors..get this right and a whole heap of trouble and strife will be avoided. SO, if the moms had come down to sleep, and had asked the men to take photos from the outset, respect it and go with it..

Is it really worth it to have the battle?? I doubt it..




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